Confused. Someone help me!

Hey guys....
Short blog today.
so I kind of have this issue that I need to get off my chest.
And NOW.
So, see, I met this boy. 
I know what you're thinking.
Ugh. Yawn. Another boy story.
But I really, really need your help, girls.
If anyone comments on this with ideas, helpful pep talks, or encouraging words, I will be SO grateful to you. 
My friend Blair does this theatre program for kids, and she met this boy.
Let's call him...... Chace.
Anyways, I met Chase briefly at one of Megan's shows. 
Then, we started talking on Facebook.
And he was the SWEETEST boy I've ever met.
He told me I was beautiful, and he said that he knew we were going to be close friends. He said he loved everything about me, and he said that meeting me made his life better.
It was the most amazing feeling I've ever felt.
I can't even describe it.
I was all tingly inside and I felt like my body had been filled with helium. I was soooooo happy.
Then, the next day, we texted a little bit more, and he was just as sweet.
Then, I started texting him, and messaging him on Facebook and such. But he started to back off a little bit. 
Like, he wouldn't respond to my calls or texts.
Or, if he did, he would be really short with me.
Only responding with one word answers like, "Yes" or "No" or "Thanks".
Occasionally, he would add a little " :)" or a " :D" but it wasn't the same.
He wasn't nearly as sweet or charming.
And he slowly started ignoring me a little bit.
It just stopped.
And I was so sad.
This only happened in the course of one day though, so maybe he was just having a bad day or something...?
So, I talked to Tiffany. My best girl friend. And she said that he is a boy, and boys are stupid. She said that he probably won't come back, and he just doesn't know any better.
Then, I talked to Sam, my best guy friend. I asked Sam to tell me, honestly, from a guy's point of view, what this means. And Sam said, truly this probably means that he was just having a bad day or something. He said when guys text, they aren't always 100% energy-wise. He said sometimes they are either relaxed, or occupied with something else, or just tired or bored. But just because he responded with one word answers doesn't mean that he is mad at me at all.
So, I'm just gonna back off for a few days, in case I am being too clingy. After all, they do say, absence makes that heart grow fonder! :)
But if you guys have any ideas or opinions, PLEASE let me know.
I would really appreciate it. 
I love you all!!!
I'll keep you posted. Whatever happens, you'll be the first to know.
Well, I might tell Tiffany first. And then you guys :)


  1. Hmm, not really sure what to say! He's probably scared that you don't like him or something! (Sorry, i'm not in a very advice-y mood today!!)


  2. why dont u let him say 'hi' first whnvr u guys IM each othr? i mean, if he really like u, he'll start d conversation first =)

  3. Hm, well I think the two friends you confided in are right. Maybe he just had a bad day. See if he's still acting like this, and if he is then I think you should talk to him about it. It may be easier then you think =) Lots of love!

  4. Awesome blog! :D
    Awwh, silly guys. I know how you feel. Chances are Sam was probably right, and he was having a bad day, unfortunately guys are idiots. >< Hopefully he'll be normal soon!


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